Factors influencing marriage relationship


Marriage styles and relationship 



Modern conjugal relationship preaches  borderless as against the olden days   reserved marriage relationship .

Meanwhile  ,the right to privacy is  a fundamental human right that  every human being is entitled to . However  balancing or exercising this in marriage is a different ball game .

 Some couples continue to maintain the traditional or reserved  lifestyle  while many have moved to the modern life style that embrace civilized coupleship without privacy in their matrimony.

Mrriage style is driven by certain  factors. Among these are 

1. Inborn : Many people are born naturally with freelance behavior that have no boundary in interaction while some naturally have   reservation inherent from birth.This natural trait tends to diffuse into marriage relationship.

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2. Custom and religion : This  is a powerful tool in human existence . Even in this modern age,some customs and faith  still uphold  that a female has limited say  .Master show me the way is what is  still being preached and practiced. Also ,some wives have turned their religious leaders to their de facto husband .They even dictate when is time for the inner room!

3.Upbringing :Family lifestyle, upbringing  and orientatation play a greater role in  marriages . Some couple  have observed their parents  lifestyle years ago that can be likened to  lion and rat relationship .Of course ,a large number of young mariages will key into that because they believe is the norm .

4.Environmental effect :The elders will say show me your friend and I will tell you whom you are. Friendship and environment play a great influence on marriage . Both husband and wife seek advice from friends that makes or mar their  marriages.  In some climes , certain joints  are being used as centres where  men gather, drink ,play games and chat on how to deal with home affairs,with or without  marriage experience or  counselling knowledge . Many marriages have been destroyed by these quack advisors

5. Economic situation: The present economic harship ,especially in some climes has eaten up matrimonial love , causing nagging and uncaring character. Many get angry at the slightest disagreement . Cold war  that has no root is a common phenomenon that has destroyed marital intimacy in present days .

6.Proactive and  preventive  measures : Many are suffering and dieing from  marital brutality because of the  notion that it is a taboo to report your husband or wife to law enforcement agency or  mediation centre for settlement of disagreement . it is believed that only family members are entitled to marital mediations. 

In conclusion ,there is a lot  to be done on  orientation about individual right in matrimony in order to have a better family relationship


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