Causes of jealousy in marriage

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Causes of jealousy between couple 

It has become a  phenomenon for couple to have either conscious or unconscious jealousy between themselves 

Many tend to pretend but the fact remains that God created us with  different endownments as well as self development 

Among the causal factors for marital jealousy include 

1.Natural beauty  : The fact is that we married ourselves based on assumed beauty and fashion .However this tend to become mountain against peace among some couples. Husbands suspecting their wives   of infidelity from the same factor that propelled to say - will you marry me ?

2.Wealth  : For God showers His  mercy in abundance on whom He wants .Wife getting financially better than husband or vis visa .Many wives are the breadwinners that make the man uncomfortable pushing him into bad ways for  getting better. This may creates hole between couple that does not accept the act of God . Jealousy sets  in that causes  differences breeding to  hatred and divorce.

3.Popularity   : As we grow in familyhood , either husband or wife grows and develops more in fame and class . Especially when wife becomes Managing director while her husband is still a storeman in his workplace ! That is the will of God. This causes jealousy between couple that does not have the spirit of Godliness and oneness .

4.Personal Intelligence : This seems to be a passive factor that may not be applicable to some families . However many couples are facing grudges  based on decision making that implies brilliance and intelligence .The masculinity is from the man  while there is  believe that women are better family decision makers .This leads to problems in some homes as to who is in charge.

5, Inborn and upbringing: This may sound strange but research has shown that some people are born to be envious either by family  blood, tribe or family upbringing .This is a serious problem when a free and cheerful lady  found herself in the hand of such a man.Every breakthrough for her brings home headache that cannot be traced !

The factors are not exhaustive as more can be available in some clime as created by certain factors such as religion,tribe etc 

Thus ,it is important for us to appreciate our differences  as ordained by  the creator and appreciate our association for better coexistence  in marriage .

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